Today I was doing some final editing on a book I'm writing and I came across the story of a client I decided to add to the book (requiring further reformatting .... GRRR... but that's my problem, not yours!)
Anyway, this senior executive had lots of work experience and a ton of accomplishments. Listening to him talk, it was clear to me that everything he touched had turned to gold, and yet he was stymied. He had created many different versions of his resume, all attempting to play down what he considered to be weaknesses.
What were the weaknesses? No MBA, lots of varied positions (CFO, COO, CEO) and experience across many industries (no consistency). This guy had tied himself in knots trying to overcome what he saw as these weaknesses.
When he engaged me to write his resume, he sent me three different versions - all completely different, and none of them worthy of him.
In every job, my client had quickly zeroed in on the company's core problem. It didn't matter what position he held. It didn't matter what industry he was working in - he consistently proved himself capable of finding the solution, no matter what the problem. And the results spoke for themselves - dramatic turnarounds, multi-million dollar sales increases, companies saved from bankruptcy .... the results were consistent and impressive.
Which made me think: How many of us are too harsh on ourselves? And how many more are too harsh when in the middle of a job search? We look at our backgrounds and we see all the negatives and none of the positives. If you're in the middle of a job search and feeling that way, consider this:
If Bill Gates had to write his resume, would he worry that he doesn't have a degree? And that he's only ever run his own company and never had the experience of working for someone else? And how about the fact that all his experience has been in software development?
We all have weaknesses. We all have things that don't fit into the perfect, orderly plan we had for our lives. None of us are perfect (even me, but don't tell my husband).
When you embark on a job search, DO NOT worry about what you don't have, didn't do, haven't experienced .. eliminate negative thoughts and focus on the positive aspects of the same information. Never worked for anyone else? Then you've never had to be told what to do. Held positions in many different industries? That means you're capable of success in any field. Don't have an MBA? Well look what you've accomplished without one!
I don't mean to sound like a Pollyanna, but the more I work with clients on their job search, the more I realize that it success really is all about attitude.
Stop beating yourself up about what's wrong and start acknowledging what's right. Companies want to hire winners and they're just waiting for you to show them why you are the winner they've been looking for.
Posted by Louise Fletcher