Are you frustrated with waiting for that call?
- The call back from the recruiter who has sent your resume/CV to a client
- The call back from the contact who is discussing your details with some of their colleagues
- The call back from the potential employer that’s trying to find a budget to take you on as a contractor
Well stop waiting
Waiting around for people to call you is one of the most frustrating parts of job searching. And usually makes you feel as if you have little or no control of what’s happening to you.
Well here’s a suggestion: stop waiting and take control.
Always keep control
Where possible don’t ever ever give people the opportunity to ‘call you back.’
Instead, make sure its YOU that keeps control by ensuring it’s YOU that is doing the calling back. And ideally, agreeing to call back at a pre-agreed time and date.
“You can’t do that…(can you?)”
Yes you can. But only if you ask.
In my experience, most people don’t even try to keep control of the conversation. When a recruiter or contact says “I’ll call you back” most people roll over and meekly say “..Ok thank you” fully expecting a call back that, often, doesn’t materialise.
What you should be doing in these situations is seizing control by politely suggesting that you’ll make the follow up call (after all you’re the one job searching and their likely to be incredibly busy). Once they’ve agreed, find a time and date to make the follow up call. Invariably you will hit their voicemail when you call back - but at least you now have control. You can leave a voicemail and say you’ll call back - instead of asking them to call you.
You won’t always get control, but you must always attempt to get it
I accept that not everyone you speak to will agree to this and some will want to keep control and call you back when they are ready to do so. But you must always attempt to keep control by asking the question. And you’ll often find you need to make several attempted follow ups to get an answer. But that’s ok. It’s part of the course. But at least this way you have some control.
Asking the question and keeping control helps you separate you from the crowd. It quickens up your job search and helps you feel like you have some control over your destiny, rather than just being another number. Another person that get’s lost on a database or in a backlog of unanswered voicemails...
By Sital Ruparelia from 6 Figure Career Management
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I totally agree with this! Always be the one to call them back!
Posted by: Sarah | August 05, 2009 at 05:32 PM
I don't know if this varies by industry, but I have found a lot of employers in my field who don't want candidates to call. Especially with companies that are smaller or who are short-staffed for various reasons, they seem to want to have control of the time line.
Posted by: Rodney Cooley | August 05, 2009 at 09:54 PM
Very nice points you have
Posted by: Swaminathan Santhalam | August 06, 2009 at 12:50 AM
thanks for the comments
Rodney it will vary from industry and company - and yes, many people will want to keep control. But much of this is to do with the way they've always worked.
If you at least attempt to keep control it often works with people you think it wouldn't:
"I know you're really busy and inundated with applicants at the moment. So why don't I call you in a few days time instead - when would be a good time for us to speak again...?"
Try it...
Posted by: Sital | August 06, 2009 at 05:17 AM
Great concept. If you don't take control or at least find a control happy medium, you tend to fall into the "victim" trap. --> you are negatively impacted by what "they" did or did not do.....
Posted by: Ernie Perez | August 06, 2009 at 03:16 PM
Great point Sital. In this job market the proactive candidate is going to win every time. If they insist that they will call you back ask one more question - "And if I do not hear back from you in the next 2 weeks will it be okay to follow up?" Just my toonies worth.
Posted by: Paul Copcutt | August 07, 2009 at 10:52 AM
Paul - agreed. In a tough market small details make the difference. Being assertive enough to ask that further question is key
Posted by: Sital | August 07, 2009 at 12:47 PM
Apologies for my late response. Agree w/your suggestions on taking control to mitigate your frustration. However, in my "past" life as an Executive Recruiter (when employed!)-- I ALWAYS advised a candidate of their status after a phone or F2F interview. Depending upon your industry, I believe all candidates are potential clients.
Posted by: Barbara | August 12, 2009 at 01:47 PM
Great advice! You're right: YOU need to be in control, and you shouldn't feel bad if you don't get called back. It's their loss :)
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